how do you know if someone has a crush on you?

Subject: how do you know if someone has a crush on you? Sun Apr 13, 2008 2:41 pm

hi...eh...paiseh bout asking this...but how do i noe if a guy likes a gal? cuz i like this guy but he says he treats me as a friend...but i get the feeling that he likes me?...is it my imagination working overdrive or what? scratch

peggy17688 wrote:: hi...eh...paiseh bout asking this...but how do i noe if a guy likes a gal? cuz i like this guy but he says he treats me as a friend...but i get the feeling that he likes me?...is it my imagination working overdrive or what?

Women's gut feeling is always accurate.. at least, hmm, 90% of the time? Embarassed

He treats you as a friend, but he might have feelings for you deep inside.. perhaps there's some reason that he's unable to confess? If you guys been a close friends and all, do try to remain as a close friend.. and in the meantime, try to find a way to confess and see what he has got to say?

Can't be a couple can always be a friend! I love you

eh...i "accidentally" confessed and i got rejected like a few times...haiz...that's why i doubt my gut feeling... Neutral

peggy17688 wrote:: eh...i "accidentally" confessed and i got rejected like a few times...haiz...that's why i doubt my gut feeling...

Aiyo... that's bad..
but well, perhaps he has some reasons behind it?
does he shows any moves n etc that makes u think he likes u too? rendeer

i dunno wat reasons he has...actually we mostly talk on msn...face to face we too shy to initiate conversation...eh...cuz i keep getting the gut feeling that he's being looking at me from last semester ever since i went to my friend's tutorial group...some of my friends also say he might be liking me also... Neutral

peggy17688 wrote:: i dunno wat reasons he has...actually we mostly talk on msn...face to face we too shy to initiate conversation...eh...cuz i keep getting the gut feeling that he's being looking at me from last semester ever since i went to my friend's tutorial group...some of my friends also say he might be liking me also...

Hmm, sounds like he's kinda shy? Maybe thats why he denied when you confessed ba..

maybe...haiz...i'm just feeling blue about it...

Cheerup ba (: Have more confidence in yourself! haha

lol...

Hmm, if a person has a crush on you, I guess that person will keep in constant contact with you and treat you as a good friend (better than a normal friend). Eg. sms u more / chat with you more on msn / organise outings with other people and ask you along too... something along that line. Oh, I think he will also keep looking at you. Then you should get the feeling that someone has a crush on you.

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Symptons of when someone likes you:
1) He/She will initiate a conversation with you most of the time.
2) He/She tends to turn to you whenever they need a listening ear.
3) You are the first person, he/she thinks of, if he/she has something joyous to share.
4) Yet you aren't the first person he/she thinks of, when he/she has something sad to share.
5) He/She will always ask you to join him/her whenever he/she has to attend a gathering and you know most ppl inside.
6) He/She knows when you are feeling sad/happy. In short he/she knows you very well and can almost read you like a book

Check for these symptons before you confess your feelings to him again. Good luck babe. Very Happy

p/s: It works for me. And that's how I got attached to my bf.

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peggy17688 wrote:: hi...eh...paiseh bout asking this...but how do i noe if a guy likes a gal? cuz i like this guy but he says he treats me as a friend...but i get the feeling that he likes me?...is it my imagination working overdrive or what?

i guess he is too shy and very passive , if both parties are too shy , no sparks will be created . i think u shouldnt remain passive anymore peggy , try ask him out , group outing ?

Guys love ladies to initiate sometimes.

Jia you!

...i tried asking him out once n he rejected... silent

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peggy17688 wrote:: ...i tried asking him out once n he rejected...

alone or with a group of mutual frens?

Try gg out in groups first..have more interactions with him, before you make your next move, i.e asking him out on a date..

Jiayou gal! =)

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ashoppingdiva wrote:

peggy17688 wrote:: ...i tried asking him out once n he rejected...

alone or with a group of mutual frens?

Try gg out in groups first..have more interactions with him, before you make your next move, i.e asking him out on a date..

Jiayou gal! =)

yes , i second to that.
Go out as a group first~ maybe go watch movies , do some group activities like sports , sit down at starbucks and relax . Laughing

I used to do that . haha Razz

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lol...dunno who to invite along...lol...

means, u dont really know his friends?

i think you should try to Very Happy

guys like their girl to be able to be comfy ard their buddies Razz

jiayou!

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peggy17688 wrote:: lol...dunno who to invite along...lol...

mutual friends, like classmates?

if you really like him, then you ought to fight for it..
As the saying goes, no pain no gain.

Jiayou! Very Happy

lol...i noe some of his frenz...but onli as acquaintances...

don't be shy!

like diva said it, if you really like him, go for it!!! must do something! Razz

if not, very hard wor.

if talking is hard, try email/MSN.. chatting online usually ease the tension and possible breaks of silence or awkward pauses..

when u're comfortable and stuff, try to ask him along to your outings or if he tells you abt his, see if he invites you or you could drop hints? hehe.

jiayou!!!!!!!!! Very Happy

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as aquaintances is okie one..can still go for drinks or lunch together at times..
start by forwarding him smses..like those good nights sms or jokes..
you can do it!
have faith in urself..=)

ashoppingdiva wrote:: as aquaintances is okie one..can still go for drinks or lunch together at times..
start by forwarding him smses..like those good nights sms or jokes..
you can do it!
have faith in urself..=)

oh yes oh yes!
fwd him SMSes! very important move Wink

observe his actions, his replies.

if it's positive signals then FULL FORCE AHEAD girl! Very Happy

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agree with xiaohei!!

Jiayou gal..I fought for it and I found my Mr. Right.

The same thing can happen to you too..

We'll be behind you supporting..Right guys? Very Happy

absolutely!!! Very Happy

fight for what you want Wink

then enjoy the fruits of your labour. we can't be sitting around and hoping and waiting for things to happen!

Razz

lol...haiz...i'm just afraid of rejection...