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What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??

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PostSubject: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Fri Jun 27, 2008 11:18 pm
As the thread title above, what will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money (i.e $100 & above) from u, stating that he/she need the money to repay his/her friends or to settle his/her bills?? And he/she promises to return u the money when he/she gets his/her pay
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Thu Jul 17, 2008 11:52 pm
wah... this is tricky. it really depends on how long you know this person? cos sometimes being togt doesnt really mean you've known them for a long time and know what kinda friends he/she is constantly mixing with...

sometimes ppl find a new bf/gf is to exploit them, i hear of these quite a few times alr. so, for me, better to check it out first before lending money. Smile

p.s.: talk is cheap Wink
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:02 am
agree with xiaohei..

actually the best is not to lent money to anyone, as the chinese saying goes "tan qian shang gan qing"..

p/s: that's also my motto in life (thanks to my dad who has been drilling it into me since I was young)
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Fri Aug 01, 2008 10:57 am
xiaohei wrote:
wah... this is tricky. it really depends on how long you know this person? cos sometimes being togt doesnt really mean you've known them for a long time and know what kinda friends he/she is constantly mixing with...

sometimes ppl find a new bf/gf is to exploit them, i hear of these quite a few times alr. so, for me, better to check it out first before lending money. Smile

p.s.: talk is cheap Wink


Thats pretty true...i know a friend...her ex right...they only been together for 1 month, then he started borrowing money from her. -.- he got no money cuz he spent all his salary the previous mth..den have to pay bills n stuffs...

seriously i resent this kind of guys! -.-
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Sun Aug 03, 2008 8:09 pm
Actually, they say they borrow to pay bills or they've some emergencies blah blah.....

BUT!!!

Maybe they are just out to cheat money or it has become a habit to 'con' money from 'their other half'.

So.... I am very careful with my money now. And, for me I won't borrow unless absolutely necessary =/
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Fri Aug 08, 2008 11:06 am
i oso think better dun lend lah...
cos later difficult to ask back...
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Sat Aug 30, 2008 11:35 pm
hahha I learnt my lesson. My friend kept borrowing money from me last time and now that I need money to pay my bills he's taking so long to return it! Sad
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Sat Aug 30, 2008 11:47 pm
My friend owe me 400, drag for half a year finally return me 100 after constant phonecalls to him. Its best not to lent any money unless to a person u trust and for saving lifes.
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Sat Aug 30, 2008 11:52 pm
Hahah true. My friend owes me 200 and now he's paying me back like 20 per week. Hopefully he'll continue doing so. ahaha
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Sun Aug 31, 2008 12:15 am
I feel my fren is only returning me the 100 to shut my mouth off. Then he will carry on to drag a few more months.

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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Mon Sep 01, 2008 12:21 am
Tsk. why don't you ask him to pay you more? LOL oops there's a typo error. Changed it (:
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Wed Sep 17, 2008 12:59 pm
Actually, they can borrow money from their parents if they really need to. Afterall, between their friend's parents and students like us, parents are obviously richer.
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Wed Sep 17, 2008 8:19 pm
Guess they have their own reasons for not asking from their parents?
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Sat Oct 04, 2008 5:47 pm
my frend..or shuld i say another person owe me 900 for 3mths and insist gt prob here n there to return...haiz freaking disappointed and angry... took dat as a very expensive lesson learnt... Sad
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PostSubject: Re: What will u do if your new bf/gf ask to borrow money from u??   Sat Oct 04, 2008 8:47 pm
raph, i guess... it's really true that money is very hard to get back once we lend it.

it's just how disappointing to see the friendship wind up this way. :S
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